Children and Sound Sensitivity: When Everyday Noises Feel Too Big for the Nervous System

Why everyday noises overwhelm some children, what the nervous system is really doing, and how to help without forcing exposure.

Why everyday noises overwhelm some children, what the nervous system is really doing, and how to help without forcing exposure.

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